Intp male dating reddit Reply reply Madel1efje • I went trough a similar experience when I was dating a male INFJ. I don't talk about my thoughts as much as my boyfriend did (unless he ask), but I listen and observe more, it makes me happy to see how enthusiastic my partner is when he tells me about his thoughts, opinions and likes. On the other hand, ENTP women usually already have better Fe than ENTP men, and probably have had enough feeling their entire lives like they aren't good enough. What kind of men gets attracted: Various due to looks, but mostly xxTJs men for character (my Ti-usage is extremely high) Does looks affect? I wouldn't say the actual physical structure of one's face matters that much. Keep initiating, stay chill and make sure to update this post soon saying you're going steady ;) From woman to woman, INTP to INTP, living at similar ages I have always struggled with my love life. I’m wondering if that works in practice in dating and relationships when the ENTJ is a woman and the INTP is the man. wouldn't be against dating an INTP on paper but from the ones I know (and 3 of my best friends are INTPs mind you) they would drive me NUTS. I’m an INTP male and I would be very cold and distant with her in the beginning. NFPs generally have had the most success though with me, however, I have not liked every NFP, by far, that has come my way. Of course, everyone needs to manage their stress & inferior grips, but I think the INTP grip can be especially noxious for relationships. My emotions have been going haywire lately. But, I think one of them may have blocked me. My experience is similar to the others: things go really smoothly and conflicts tend to be small. It's really great. And regarding some comments here; I definitely do not see an ENTP as my perfect match. INTP) submitted 5 months ago by Every-Tart-188 Confused INFJ. Or check it out in the app stores TOPICS. Hi I'm seeking some advice on how INTP men operate during a relationship. 5/10,000 to be INTP/m + INFJ/f, so the odds are that an INTP + INFJ relationship is the latter would be 85%, or phrased differently, for every 2 INTP/f + INFJ/m relationships we have 11 INTP/m + INFJ/f relationships. lol Any INTP men dating ISFJ women . I dont want to change or fake my personality. I’m looking for a friend in life. Sup fellow INTP's. So maybe, this Reddit can help me out here and give me some stories about their own past relationships, how they’ve shown they care in the past, and what works in their To each’s own. This projection of the ideal man is often a bogeyman created by your own insecurities. Anna devotes an entire chapter to INTP relationships, written to be gender neutral but from a female INTP perspective She also notes that the INTP-INTP match is the "only known preferred pairing for INTPs". Only an intp can I'm an ENTP 5w6 and my girlfriend who I've been dating almost a year now is a INFJ 4w5. Reply reply penguinsmar • Just got dumped a couple of months ago by an INTP male after I roasted him for 30 minutes and he Certain personalities work well together, but you knew that already, didn't you? /r/MBTIDating is a R4R style personals and dating advice subreddit for the 16 Myers-Briggs (MBTI) personality types. The female INTP I know is independent and responsible, but the My ENTJ (female) friend is married to an + INTP (male) and she's currently having a difficult time due to the reasons that you mentioned. My Se grip just makes me (at worst) neurotic about tidying & cleaning, and at best, super eager to have sex. If you don't say it, we aren't going to know how you're feeling, and will presume things are probably fine, even if you think there's obviously an issue in x, y, or z area of your relationship. I think a good INFJ makes an ENTP a better person by making them more in tune with their emotional side. Me personally, I think asking random questions like “why do you buy food from a certain market” is awkward (and boring) especially if it doesn’t serve the purpose of leading to a conversation about markets (a topic I’d have to be interested in) or about the human psyche. Today, we’ll be figuring out what challenges you can expect to face and how best to overcome them In this post, we run through 31 things you need to know when dating an INTP. Also dating a male INTP for a few weeks, and it’s not for the faint of heart INFJ. I know 😶 how did he ever find a living breathing female to actually gasp like him lol. I’ve been navigating that more. Only female INTP I know I met online, she, like most INTPs, never left her house unless she HAD to. So, what are Here are the 5 best dating tips for INTP men, so you can get out there with confidence! 1. I'm highly introverted, shy, not social person, so it looks like I'd need to completely turn my life around to be effective in attracting women. So I've read quite a bit about what INTP men when they have crushes, what they may do, things they say, how they act, etc. But in a form of analogy, good looks is like casting a bigger fishing net, you catch more shit too. Most INTP women won’t come across that way. It could be the most brilliant match ever. You find them online, in other words. He seems to withstand my witty banter well enoughbut I'm nervous. I'm (f ENTJ) highschool sweethearts with my (m) INTP/J. I only recently found out that he is an INTP and everything has started to make sense. What I've come to find with INTP, in both observing friend INTPs dating live and my own experiences dating an INTP, is that if they recognize they like you romantically and want to pursue you, they will. Can overcome arguments simply with periods of distance. It puts the cart before the horse. So reasonable experience with primary/aux Ti,Ne, and Fi combos. Many INTP men find online dating to be the most INTP female here, in a relationship with an INFJ male for about 9 months already, but have already known each other for more than a decade. In the scenario that we’re pretty stereotypically our MBTI types. Appreciating the INTP for doing these things goes a very long way. This is likely because the female "ideal" in the US is their exact opposite- ESFJ- and also because in American culture women are expected to be feelers while men are expected to be thinkers. INTP's way of expressing love is one of extreme generosity and an attempt to resolve your issues so you can think more clarity yourself. Therefore we'd expect 3/10,000 heterosexual relationships to be INTP/f + INFJ/m. having attention from a lot of different women sounds nice, but in practice it felt like performing the most unfun and uncomfortable part of a relationship over and over again without ever getting to the really good Thanks for your comment! I love that openness and vulnerability and talking about anything too! The first time I met with my INTP alone, we wanted to go for a walk for an hour and maybe talk for two hours afterwards, but it turned into a two-hour walk and 8 more hours of talking lmao. INTP woman, relationships and dating . Also, I've confused male friends in the past whose conversation and intellect I really enjoy, however, I have had no attraction or romantic interest in them. INTP female dating ESFJ male . I had an awesome relationship with an ENTP woman, still to this day I think she's the person who has understood me the most in life. by FabiLibra. INTP male here. but we aren’t naturals at approaching them. They have the same 4 functions but in opposite order. Before I started dating my (INTP male, INFJ fem) partner, we started off as friends for about 8 months; our conversations were fun, a lot of commonalities in terms of creativity and philosophical discussion. Above all I feel they'd truly understand my need to be alone every once in a while. I would say that is most likely a specific case you experienced. “Do not unto others that which you would not that others should unto you” – Pierre-Joseph Proudhon Hi, r/INTP!I'm looking for some advice, but I feel it's appropriate to give some background before I ask for it. Shared love expressions (quality time, physical touch, intellectual stimulus). He thinks I'm analytical, and I like that he's in touch with his feelings. Since I've seen several posts about the interactions between an INTP and ENTJ and how our types are allegedly the perfect match, I thought I'd share what my experience has been dating my MBTI shadow as an ENTJ-T female. Internet Culture (Viral) Amazing However, as a female ENTP, I attract many males feelers but often got friendzoned by male thinkers. I'm a male ENTJ dating a female INTP for 7 months so far. We celebrated our 13 year anniversary this summer. Knowing she is an INTP, I want to try and communicate more in her language. Following mbti stereotypical fun facts might sabotage you because in my experience intp is everything but intp when falling for someone (it's pretty chaotic (or it's just my entp's fault)). He's super smart, and seems appreciative of my sarcasm, which a lot of people don't like. INTP/INTP relationships are very interesting. none of this is likely ur fault or has anything to do with you. INTP be like: "I will abstract and find this ideal man of yours this son of a bitch and I swear I will kick his ass. INFP female here dating an INTP male. Men like me at first but seem to lose interest fast. My birth father and step dad are both INTPs, and I've had several INTP friends. I (INTP male) am aloof most of the time, but I was the first to request that we work our differences out and that we join couples therapy. Maybe you should try to talk more about yourself. I’m a 33 year old INTP female in a 20 year relationship with an ENTJ male. 24M INTP looking for male friends . I'm just one INTP but, I found in my early 20's that respect is so important and is often overlooked in relationships. My latest curiosity is the male psyche. INTJ and INTP are a supreme match if they can get it right. Give online dating a shot. A subreddit to discuss Reddit iOS Reddit Android Reddit Premium About Reddit Advertise Blog Careers Press. This is probably not the right subreddit, but i want my people to give me advice. From this relationship the INTP wins most out of it, and the INFJ just mostly needs to compromise. My boyfriend is INTP and Im an ESFJ. There is no capacity left for a second one. In my experience of problems among INTP/ENFP relationships. Say what is on your mind. I'm passionate, crass, and bossy. But simply introvert, quiet ones. Internet Culture (Viral) Amazing; Animals & Pets I'm a female INTP, with a male INFP. That all seems spot on. We think in very different ways (him the classic branching-out-all-possibilities thinking style of INTPs, me the classic direct-focused-efficient style of ENTJs), which can lead to frustrations sometimes, but we’re both patient with each other and always try to work things out. Anywaysso I think my coworker who is an INTP likes me?! Learning how to date when you’re an INTP man comes with challenges in some areas and natural ease with others. Partners sure, but true emotional connection for me is rare. The shared Ne/Ti hits different in terms of how well we could communicate and analyze our relationship, and even use cognitive functions as a model to understand each other better. I’m pretty attracted to doers, type A, hard working people. when it comes to romantic relationships, making such an exception is just not possible. Actually INTP and ESFJ are a Duality couple, which complement eachother. For starters I think lead introverted judging functions (Fi/Ti) put folks in their own little worlds which can make them seem selfish/ out of touch. So maybe, this Reddit can help me out here and give me some stories about their own past relationships, how they’ve shown they care in the past, and what works in their In the case of male vs female, that may depend greatly on the individuals, but the influence of culture and testosterone, typically the ENTJ role will more commonly fall to the male most of the time. Reply reply a female INTJ, and she likes an INTP male. At that point it's game-on. It didn’t last long, because he INTP male in his sophomore year looking to try out dating in college after breaking up with my long distance girlfriend. She work as a manga artist too, studied online, and did all her shopping online. white people, specifically white men, are the most privileged people in places like america, and american media is a lot different when portraying asian women, as asian media is when portraying white men. all types welcome INTP here. I am a INTJ (F). Hell half the problem with men is that for plenty of us we never get that. " Also INTP: *slaps himself* take that you faggot! Stop undressing my girl with what is the INTP Dating Rulebook? Any advice, tips, or insight into the mind of an INTP would be most appreciated. And neither of those are bad for relationships. Intelligence is a start, but open-mindedness and ability to contribute to my dorky moments are equally important. I’m constantly questioning just how much my INTP cares about me and our relationship. I'm an INTP male, and in my experience, I've tended to run across two distinct strains of INTPs in the wild: In the first category, are INTPs like your partner, who tend to be more emotionally unresponsive, overly binary in their thinking, typically very risk-averse, not very adventerous, more uncomfortable with ambiguity, and are usually into something like the hard sciences, INTP female (23) dating ENTP male (31) receptive for disaster or match made in heaven? I forgot how to Reddit :/ oops Reply reply I am talking to an INTP male (I'm an ENTP female) and so farpretty awesome. Also, unfortunately I am used to be mentally lazy and wish to step up my game in order to discuss and be able to talk with my gf about the topics she enjoys. Now granted I have only had like 4 or 5 dates the past year but I’m noticing a pattern. I had worked so much on myself to improve and he hide behind the INFJ label with his shortcomings. i can’t pretend to love someone or do ‘casual dating’. But I feel in the long run, that it will be a very stable relationship where both compliment one another. I am currently dating an INTP (we met on Reddit!) and I love the dynamic we have. I like an introverted person, not an Just do it - there's a reason that ENTJ/INTP is heralded as a great match. Reply reply I mean, good luck finding an INFJ though an INFJ sub reddit is generally a good start. I think that the advices i’ll get here will suit me more, and maybe there will be some intp with my same experience who i can relate to. We offset eachothers weaknesses at work and I can tell we have mutual attraction (Edit: I'm the ENFP male and my Girlfriend is an INTP female) A couple people have made a comment about the F vs T and how Logic often 'fights' against feeling. Ive been dating an INTP male for the past few months and its been an interesting experience. For the first months of our relationship I was also overwhelmed and was clingy towards him to the point that I would get upset when our dates get cancelled, even for valid reasons. However I would say overall INTP’s can be childish. I love men, honestly. (very popular for kids my age) based on this, i’m guessing most of us have only had 1-2 relationships or are yet to find someone? So if you find another INTP (men or women) you can see all the traits that you have in youself mirrored on someone else. Gaming This is one of the most psychologically compatible inter type relationships. I’m unsure about the block thing without warning being a INTP male thing. I have read a number of times that we aren't supposed to be great at chill, committed relationships, but I'm not convinced that's true. Any sort of general advice is accepted as I have already made research about the most pressing questions I had. I'm an INTP female in a relationship with a INFP male and he gives me life. ESFJ is a popular type among females and it is rare to find INTP females, so I get why this happens. Follow reddit rules. The INTP qualities will be perceived in a woman as cold, sharp, and serious when we’re really just detachedly observing. Cons: ENTP and INTP will develop an unhealthy feedback loop in regards to debates and arguments. They're some of my best friends, allies, fellow problem solvers, cheer leaders, fellow gamers and I think they're cute and sometimes they smell super delicious. INFP female heredating an INTP maleAND I’m kind of struggling here. Meaning there has almost always been an interested guy, I find myself in deep relationships often, and my natural indifference towards all of it is I guess what keeps them coming back and what keeps a new supply of interested men. I have been having a casual, but intense, on-and-off relationship with an INTP male. Then again, I don't know much about this and also I might be a bit biased as an INTP male :o) Reply reply Appreciation Post - No wonder INFJ male, recently started dating/seeing/weird friendship with an INTP girl. Usually they won't come outright and be bold, but would rather you initiate. It's about my relationship. I have the unfortunate trait of being attracted to intp-esque men and they just absolutely suuuck at the relationship part of relationships. Not too many men make me feel anything. She didn't want to date anyone with the same major as her, (She had the rule long before we became friends, it wasn't a way to turn me down specifically or anything like that) but now that quarantine is here and we won't have any classes together next semester I told her I was interested in pursuing a Points worth noting on this subject: INTP women are viewed the most negatively of all type/gender categories in the US. Or check it out in the app stores Home; Popular; TOPICS. 8 months feels like a short Based on my (INTP Male) personal experience of dating (an ENTP Female) Pros: Deep debates. This sub is maintained by INTPs for INTPs all other MBTI are welcome too, but do us all a favor and add your Something I'd really like to try is dating an INTP. No disrespect, but what the heck has happened to this Reddit i wouldn’t associate being an intp with lack of interest in the opposite sex. with. Dating INTP M for 6 years and planning to grow old together. The reason being is that we have that child like quality of loving a new subject and investing so much time into it. Like it’s something I have to accept. Whether in a relationship or friends, they have the the potential to be a crazy awesome power couple. Like all the Dear INTPs, we have subreddits like r/dating_advice/, r/seduction/ and I wonder how useful are tips from there. Also dating an intp for 12 years Completely agree I love her validation and lack of judgment it really enables me to explore the diff facets of my personality. It sounds weird but I struggle. We have been dating for 4 months both nearing 30 and it's been a whirlwind in terms of how quickly we came together. It's one thing to explain my out of the box insights on a math puzzle to someone who listens passively («Wow, this is so interesting !»), it's another level when we spend 1h in bed with her actively trying to solve the puzzle using my insights. lol. A male thats most of the time serious but if its a funny vibe can be fun. Do women like quiet, introvert, intj or intp men? Question Not shy ones. I'm an INTP - there's no such thing as a tl;dr for me ;-) I appreciate your thoughtful reply. Factors like one person being more naturally shadow developed will also have a strong influence here. View community ranking In the Top 1% of largest communities on Reddit. Lol dating is hard. My boyfriend is an INTP, I'm an ENFP, - we've been dating for a couple months now, and he's easily one of the best people I know, and is the best boyfriend I've ever had. It seems like it would work so, so ENTJ with 2 close female friends (ENFP & INFP) and an INTP so. Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now. One interaction alone would dry INTP male to near death in terms of social battery. Never said all (and I don't speak in absolutes). Couldn’t imagine either of us testing differently. I feel like it could actually work out. E/INFJ’s, INFP’s, ENTP’s— E/INTJ is said to be a good match because, in theory, the dominant function seeks its counterpart (Ti-Te etc)— In my personal experience I’ve fallen hardest and have had the most emotional experiences with FJ’s— to the point where I think ENFJ/INFJ is the most compatible and meaningful. I'm an INTP man with a huge crush on an ISFJ woman at work. Meanwhile we'd expect 16. The world doesn't give a shit about you, intp men know this more than most. Advice on dating an INTP male as an ENFP female . I will say, yes, words of affirmation can be number one INTP love language easily. The vast majority of hetero men will describe an attractive female personality as “bubbly”. So, bear with me, but I have been dating a girl who is an ISFP (to the brim) for about three months now, and it is the weirdest relationship I have ever been in, but also the purest and most genuine. Beyond the questionable business model, there’s the intent of meeting a new person specifically for a relationship. Primarily because she appreciates my ideas to make our whole business run more efficiently and I reciprocate by appreciating her hard work and fast paced energy to get things done. OP mentioned romantic pairing & I'm speaking from my perspective (dates I've been on, people I've dated, people who's expressed romantic interest in me, and relationships I've witnessed from the outside - all who are men). Coming from an INTP male in a gay relationship with an ENFP, here’s I'm just saying because I'm talking to an INTP male as a female and I've been hinting but they are either oblivious or doing that on I'm an INFJ with a question about love (self. Do not post content that promotes hate based on identity or vulnerability. The best part is openly talking about how stupid everyone else is compared to you two, and how everyone else except the both of you are just gushy boxes of tiresome emotions. I mean the whole "you don't like me" thing shouldn't really be a problem and I'd love someone who I could talk about "deep" things, useless scientific theories, philosophy, etc. Which brings a lot of problems because a lot of men INTPs default response to emotional stress factors is distancing themselves from their life, as much as they can. Known eachother for many years at this point. If I can give you some advice beyond the "don't be clingy" cliche. For her, the solution revolves around emotional maturity from my side (which we all know takes time). He can sometimes be very cold and detached, but then other times he is very Wow, thank you for the well thought out response. That's it, we need to start an INTP dating website! Reply reply or horribly I can tell. They are like Ying and Yang. Recommend this video about compatibility in personality types https: (INFJ female) found the INTP male I am dating for half a year now on a dating site. 🙏☺️ Personally, as an INTJ male, and a philosophy oriented person, I live by the Golden Rule, and the negative Christian tenet of "Do unto others" (Even though I'm an atheist). So I feel comfortable being myself around her, but I still want to ask the internet for their thoughts on this sort of pairing, an INTP female and INFP male, and any advice, perhaps. I don't have any experience dating INTPs, but I want to reassure you that ESFP women aren't all sneaky and lousy at secure relationships. He's even tempered, polite, and willing to go along for the ride. If I find this video I watched a few months ago on it I'll come back and post it. Hi there, ISTJ female here and currently dating INTP male as well. Theirs something about the intp that just speaks my language and the personality type can be grounding for a head in the clouds infj. As a male INTP who doesn't believe he has the pleasure of meeting a female INTP I view them much like fanciful unicorns. My wife doesn’t want that. ur crush likely is being honest that alot is going on in his head & dating is probably quite honestly not at all his priority in life even if he is romantically interested in u. inb4 we create a legion of apathetic disorganized couples who spend all day reading articles on reddit and forgetting to shower. Being open and communicating is the part that must be constantly worked on, but really, since both are logical types, it requires less effort than it would need with other people. Most of the people I know in successful longterm relationships did not meet on dating apps even if they did meet online. There's a fundamental undercurrent of understanding we have that allows us to have conversations about the nature of being and other things out on the edge of comprehension that I've never been able to have with anyone else on such a deep level, except my two other best friends, an ENFP In terms of liking an INTP man— I’m pretty young so I have experimented with dating people that didn’t work long-term. Cheating would require INTP male to interacted with not only one but two females and not only that. If you're curious : From what I can tell, this isn't entirely true, but the relationships Socionics described aren't inaccurate, either -- I'm an INFJ dating an INFP (quasi, just like INTP/INTJ), and we definitely have a lot of the problems described under quasi-identical relations (which is considered one of "most damaging" relationships people can share), which include well i can tell you the difference. A lot of websites I’ve seen suggest that INTPs are a good compatibility match for ENTJs. I'm GNC and although I can have my super feminine moments, my way of dressing and behaving is traditionally masculine. 193K subscribers in the INTP community. The interactions would have to be successful. ENTJ female x INTP male pairing thoughts? Dating|Relationships It is established that we like each other, but I feel tired from carrying the conversation as the ENTJ. (I'm supposedly an INFP). Hey there. Apparently the INTP male and INFJ female combo is supposed to be top ranked. They label INTP as INTj for some reason. Like, Mom, that's just too much. This man has likely never had a serious, 1 on 1, emotional partner. I AM and INTP though lol don't hold your breath One of my best friends is an INTP. Slightly less terrible for women than men, but still not great. I have been told I’m attractive but it only gets me in the door. im an intp woman & this sounds like exactly me unfortunately:( it sucks to hear from another perspective / tht ur going thru this. So, if you’re dating an INTP or are curious about what makes them tick, read on. I was chatting with an ENFJ for a long time but he admitted that he didn’t care about the I'm a female INTP and I recently got into an relationship with my male ISTP best friend, we get along very well and rarely have ever had any arguments, maybe only two, I've grown very fond of him and Id like maybe some tips for the The story so far I met a female INTP at college and we quickly became friends. I have seen many posts about this relationship, but mostly it is the other way around - an INTP male and and ESFJ female. It's brilliant. We love our space and sometimes feel overwhelmed when things are going either too quickly in our mind As an intp woman, currently dating men is complicated. However I think since my INTP girlfriend is a girl, she may be a bit more emotionally developed than a male INTP? I don't mean anything bad by that but I feel like that is a thing. Like, I have grown sons and I text them like ten times a day because I love them, too. The biggest thing for an ENTP to know about dating an INFJ is to be respectful of their alone time, to be sensitive towards their feelings, and to be caring. . We are engaged to be married. Members Online Nurturing a male ENTP's Fe is usually going to be seen as a positive thing, especially when men often see it as the job of a woman to help "soften" them. which is part of why i found dating stressful. there are usually three (mostly east) asian stereotypes in films: a quiet nerd, a martial arts god side kick, or a submissive, voiceless The internet says that ESFJ and INTP aren’t compatible, but that is so untrue. Do not bully or harass other users. The INTP problem is that things may be aesthetically unpleasant or sort of gross, but without them impeding regular use or creating a hazard, there may be no logical reason to do the task at the prescribed time and so even with a weekly schedule there is tremendous procrastination potential. Don't expect a regular response either. You said "when you hug him or kiss him, do it with your whole heart". I have dabbled in online dating and get interest but struggle to get past a first date. She was an ISFJ and it was nice at first but after a while it became harder to connect or relate to her due to the intuitive-sensor disconnect. Basically though, you know we like you when we text the shit out of you all the time. Most men, even fully naked, still have some armour on. Certain personalities work well together, but you knew that already, didn't you? /r/MBTIDating is a R4R style personals and dating advice subreddit for the 16 Myers-Briggs (MBTI) personality types. But I’m just curious about any advice to keep our relationship intact. Even after sharing my feelings and discussing solutions So, I've known this INTP for five years now, and I'm still unsure sometimes of how to handle the personality differences between us. Therefore, me as an INTP male who kind of dated a INFP think that, analysing the functions and specially her, both types are in some instance extremaly compatible but incompatible in another ones, in general this will lead to a near high compatibility.
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